Posted in xn--kfs74mzzid01b.com edit by rose on January 8th, 2009
So i met this guy a few months ago. Last week he asked me out and he was being so amazing.He always told me i meant so much to him and he would never do anything to hurt me. He texted me all day long, called me every night, walked me to all my classes, ate lunch with my friends and i everyday and always offered to get me something.I told him people thought we would be hs sweethearts and he said "we will, i know it, i love you so much" Then this week he did NOTHING!! whenever i texted or called him he was "busy" . I asked him if he thought our relationship would last and he said "i have no idea". Yesterday after school I saw him walking and holding hands with this other girl and then they hugged and left. Last night i broke up with him and all he could say is "that's cool". I can't believe i was stupid enough to fall for him. How can i ever be sure someone really likes me?You know, I read this twice to make sure I didn't miss anything...and what's clear to me is that you didn't do ANYTHING; which is why she got him and you're now bitter. Learn a lesson and next time you want something, go after it fight for it and hold on to them tight!
HE ate lunch with your friends, HE catered to your every wish, HE texted you and talked sweetly to you...what did you bring to the table?Some guys are just like that. Girls do it aswell, It's happened to me a few times by some girls. My friend has been engaged 3 times, maybe even 4. He meets a girl and he's totally in love, moves in with them and proposes, then he meets another girl who chances are, isn't even that attractive compared to the current one and he ditches her for the new one. Some people are just like that. Hope this helpsSounds like to me he did like you but maybe you were not putting out the way this other girl may be doing. Guys when they are young tend to think more with the little head then they do with their hearts.
You will find a guy that will smile at you, try to be with you even when you are busy, find out from your friends if you really like him by having one of his friends ask if you like him.
They do silly things when they are young, sometimes some of the good ones grow out of the silly head games.Sounds to me like he got bored and just moved on to the next girl which i could say he sounds a bit like a player (good guys always finish last). But girls always fall for the player anyway. Yeah he just used you, you didn't do anything with him did you? Leading people on isnt nice and it's what he's done.maybe you werent giving enough back.
Girls are built with a system to read between the lines ... A LOT ... even though there's nothing to read. I mean thats what guys hate because they don't think about some things they say. There's the common situation where girls ask a question, and guys give an answer, and the girl is like WTF IS THAT SUPPOSED TO MEAN.
Basically if you aren't careful with how you present yourself and your interests, guys will be able to see. and if the guy sees it ... you must be presenting it outwardly loud and clear. Girls are vulnerable targets for the guys they crush on ... and if that guy is a jerk, BEWARE. not to say all guys are jerks. that's just what your situation sounded like. jerks have their own systems too. like try to get that "something" out of a girl that's more than willing to give it to him.
The only thing you can do is be calm, cool, collected, and use your girl skills to investigate. We all fall at get burned at least once. then we learn. especially when its too good to be true. "every rose has it's thorn" I'm not saying be pessimistic ... just be more observant and more careful.
guys who like you ... will try to get some sign out of you. and if they don't want to try hard enough, guess what ... you don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to try for you. it's totally ok to fall :) it's a really nice feeling to be swept off your feet. but you shouldn't give him all the cards in the game. welp im not gonna lie to you u r pretty stupid dont be so jealous now look at you crying and looking for help on yahoo answersDating-
http://gilmoregirl.org/First of all you didnt know that he would be that type of guy at the time! you got cought up in the moment for a while and are stuggling to get out! just let it slid remember it was his fault for being a cheater!
Just take time to recoparte! if someone likes u let them tell you! and act cool about it all!
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