Posted in xn--kfs74mzzid01b.com edit by rose on January 8th, 2009
sure, why not. if it rains on your picnic, are you going to hold a grudge forever? maybe you'll pay a bit more attention to the weather report, but being angry about this only hurts yourself. let it go, move on, and be happy. of course, don't take the b@stard back.for your own sanity, forgive and forget him. You can forgive him only if he comes back to you... not if he forgets you and stays with her forever... If he does so, be confident enough that u can stand on ur own legs in the society.. dont ever panic.. But there is nothing wrong in waiting for him.. you can speak with him and make both clear wats the prob with u and try to find out the reason why he left u and try to solve it... One day he will be back for sure... Ok... Good dayIt's healthier in the long-run to at least try to forgive, as harboring hate in your heart can lead to ulcers, heart conditions, and such. However, admittedly, in some cases, individuals simply cannot forgive (though perhaps in time sometimes will forget).Yes, you should forgive him for that and everything else he has done. And then forgive yourself for the things you have done wrong. Move forward. You do not need to attempt to get back with him, or anything.
Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself. If you don't you will just be bitter and that isn't going to hurt him, only you. I know it's hard but it the first step to having a better, and not bitter, life.
Good luck and remember, he just did you the biggest favor of your life. NOW, you can go find someone worthy of your love. In my opinion the break down of a marriage is always both parties fault. Sure, he did the cheating but are you completely blameless that your marriage got so bad that it went that way??? It's always easiest to blame the cheater, and for sure it's wrong. But there is always two sides to a story. I can see now that when my ex-partner cheated that our relationship was over well before that happened for other reasons. I learnt from my mistakes, he learnt from his and now we have a good relationship for the sake of our child. Evaluate your relationship and then if you can honestly say that you never did anything wrong in the marriage then don't forgive him.Heck no dump that loser! If he left you once he will leave you again if you were to forgive him and let him come back to you! Guys like that will not change and cant change. A friend of mine had that happen and she remarried him and the same thing happened!My husband left me for another woman for 2 1/2 years but in that time we started going out and he came back to me. He has been back 10 years and i have never forgiven him and never will. What he did doesn't deserve forgiveness but that's OK i still love him i just can't forgive him. yes you should...that doesn't mean forget or take him back...but you can forgive him..let it go...something within him was wrong for you. just be glad it was now and not a day longernoway!!what ever makes you feel better but wtvr you do DO NOT LET HIM INTO YOUR LIFEYou are supposed to forgive everyone just as Jesus forgives us!! Once you are married you should stay married, and if he divorces you then you should stay single and not marry anyone else. If you have faith in God and pray, God will change your life for the better!!!Yes.
Because if you do not forgive him, you will be the one who carries the hurt and wounded soul.
Note: Forgiving someone in no way condones their actions or behavior. It simply means YOU let go of the hurt.YES BUT NEVER LET HIM INTO YOUR LIFE AGIN BEAUTYthis is so tough. Men cheat for many reasons... one of them is that they aren't happy at home. If you can see WHY he cheated then maybe you can understand it better. If you feel in your heart that you may have been a cause of it then face it and let it go. Be open about the true facts and don't hold your feelings inside. If you feel that he just flat out cheated because he's a jerk, then walk away and know that he will do it to HER too. Forgive???hmmmm... he's gone. Move forward, accept what happened. ... Make sure the next relationship stays very close with you. forgive him..but not for his sake for yours.. holding a grudge will only make your life miserable..always thinking about it and when you have something negative on your mind like that then it will reflect on yourself.. best advice i can give you is move on! hes a inconsiderate selfish prick i mean the bes tthing to do it just forget about it all and move on and DIVORCE! there so many more men out there who will treat you way better than you know.. just start looking your best, work out, it makes you feel amazing and will make you loook even amazinger and do things for yourself and he ll regret it once he sees youve moved on and are doing things for yourself and not wasting your time on that pointless manThat's so bad. You don't have to forgive him straight away but its up to you. But to forget is the best way and finding a new guy thats wonderful will really make you forget about your cheating husband.Good luck !!Forgive for your own well being, however don't forget. You wouldn't want to be burned twice. Once shame is on him, twice it's on... you.If it makes you feel better and able to move forward in your life then yes. Some people need closure and for you forgiveness may be it. However it would be your right to never forgive him since what he did is frankly unforgivableForgive that depends if you have kids who are hurt by all this i can forgive anything done to me but not my kids
Forgive but never forget.once a cheater always a cheater you must have looow self esteem if you want him back after him cheating sorry but thats truth why would you want him back after that its gross Why are you asking this question...I know you are smarter than that...lmaoit makes you the better person; did he apologize? you can forgive him but your feelings will never be the same about him. I couldn't forgive him. If he ever cheated, I couldn't trust him again.No. A cheater will always be a cheater. Sorry that is my opinionummmm....NO!#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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