Posted in xn--kfs74mzzid01b.com edit by jack on January 9th, 2009
We've been going out for 5 months now and for about 3 months everything was going great. After that, she changed dramatically. She gets moody very often, and I can usually put up with it, but the smallest insignificant things make her upset and she gets very annoying. She acts very immature sometimes, and I remind her that we're not in high school anymore. She also has started becoming very suspicious and always looks through my text messages to see if another girl is texting me. I really don't know what to do. I've talked to her about it, but it only offends her so I drop it quickly. I miss the old her, and I really don't want to break up with her because I remember how she used to act, but I really can't stand her anymore. Suggestions?Go talk to Shanda and Scoop..lol
Let her know that you miss the old her and that she needs to start acting her age or that you eventually gonna give her the boot..GLdump her.shes going to be one of those naggin gfs and if it has only been 5 months thats wack
dump her a-s-sYou should tell her exactly how you feel and if she doesn't understand then maybe she isn't the right one for you... you should move on.ask her about her past. she may be afraid of getting hurt. I know it isn't fair to you, but you have to be patient sometimes. I know I can be like that. At frist im fine but once i start falling, i get more scared, and more protective of myself.
hope you understand.I think if you have to ask that question, then the answer should be yes. I know there are problems in every relationship, but it sounds to me as if there are some serious trust issues on her part, and if she won't even talk about it with you, then that makes it even worse.
You could try taking a "break" but I've found that that is just a waste of time as the relationship rarely revives from the break.
I wish you luck with whatever you do decide.you better hope she dont check your yahoo account too or she'll see this question and youll be in a lot of troubleOMG!! same thing happen to me, like the exact same thing
you know what i did!! ;)
broke up with her and dont regret it for nothing, im having fun without all her drama stuff
so u should break up with her if u rly cant take her imatureness (is that a real word? haha) and find some one betterDo what you feel is right, <3Maybe just suggest that you need a break. That might make her realise that she can't treat you that way. If you do that and it dosn't work then maybe you should break it off with her. After all you must live in the present not the pastIt sounds like she's starting to show you the real her. I've been in this situation and it's unlikely she is going to to back to how she was. If you can't stand her anymore then don't force yourself to be with her. Although I would talk to her first and see if maybe something is wrong that you two can fix. Find out if there's a reason she is acting differently. i you much be becaue another is thereI think she is in love with you and is very controlling. try to tell her that she needs to get a life or you will break up with her. Also, don't let her change you and don't fall for her little burst outs. Stick to who you are and don't tolerate. Just ignore her and don't call her when she does that. She'll come around. Trust me. I'm a girl and I know when I start my little games, if the guy gives in, I'll drive him nuts; however, I hope he will not fall in the trap and show me that he is strong.She may have cheated on you. I know that's the last thing you want to hear, but the fact that she's become suspicious of you and is acting all moody, I doubt she's having month-long periods.
People usually become suspicious and act moody when they're the ones who did something wrong. If you care about her, try to let her know how you feel and try to get her to talk about why she's acting the way she is, that's the best advice I can give you.If no level of trust has been built in five months, it's probably time to bail. i think u should talk to her and tell her 'why r u like this' mayb shes pmsing or shes going through pregnancy lol idk but ask her and if it doesnt work then i guess ur only option is too leave her if she wont understandI think what happened is that she changed and you dont like the person she became. If this is the real her, then I think you should dump her. If this is some kind of phase for her, then you can wait.
Ultimately, I think you should break up with her since you've already talked to her about it. See you said, "I miss the old her" so that means its gone. She's not the same person you fell for. #If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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