Posted in xn--kfs74mzzid01b.com edit by cfz on January 7th, 2009
Right, i really like my boyfriend and hes not a total idiot! he just sometimes gets abit carried away but when i tell him no to sex he accepts it and appologises but he has recently been asking more frequently! i look alot older than i am and im 5 foot 9 and more developed than my friends but im a bit concerned! what should i do?Well sweety, for starters your only 13 and your really mature for not giving into him so easy, just keep doing what your doing and if he begins to get frustrated then i think its time for you to end it. but he seems to be kinda understanding he just gets caught up in the moment and expects a little something from you. Wehn the times right or when your ready to take it that far you'll know. good-luck!Sorry but your boyfriend is a pervert and a freak. 16 and 13 is illegal no matter where you live, he's trying to take advantage of someone younger than him and it's disgusting. You need to get rid of him and find someone your own age.Stop making excuses for his behavior. He means what he said. And whatever you do please don't fall into his little trap, because that's what it is. If he can't respect your wishes, then he don't respect you. This is not the time, he just wants to fill his sexual desire and then probably dump you. Come on! You hear it all the time. Ask you friends or anybody you know if they are still with the same guy whom they gave themselves to. I guarantee that the answer is no! Or if they are keeping themselves, I suggest you do the same too.
You are worth more than just a sexual desire. Continue to respect yourself and he'll respect you. If he don't, loose him. You don't need him.He does mean to. I know that sounds harsh, but if he really didn't mean it, then it only would have happened once. Don't allow him to pressure you before you're ready. 13 is too young for having sex and for dating a 16 year old.well dont get to close to him now avoid being alone if not well avoid turning on the kid plzzzzzz don give in for ur own sake. ur bf is a kinda guy who likes 2 get into a gal's pants thts it. if he doesnt respect ur feelins he is not worth it n by d way ur too young.I know you like this guy but most of the time when a 16 year old boy is dating a 13 year old girl its because they think she's going to be young, dumb, and easy. It is a good sign that he doesn't get angry when you tell him no, but still don't do anything you don't want to do. Sex is way more than just physical. There is a lot more going on emotionally than a teenager realizes. If you give in to him and he dumps you after wards you're going to be crushed! So it's best to wait until you are older and more emotionally stable to handle the consequences behind being intimate with someone. I hope I've helped.Keep telling him no. If he breaks up with you or you guys fight over that, he was not worth it and you deserve better. You need someone who respects you. Good for you that you know you're not ready. Thirteen is too young for sex. I know what that's like though, I'm sixteen and so is my ex, he pressured me too. I dumped his ***.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...Don't give in. Even though your mature sex isn't something at thirteen that you should be having to worry about. If you say no he needs to respect that decision. If he keeps pressuring you get rid of him, or he'll go try to find someone that will.
There is only one fist time in your life it special and it should be with someone that is equally magnificent. Someone you respect, trust, and love, and who equally gives these qualities back.
Wait hopefully a long time! You should wait till your at lest 18 then you can do whatever you want!Don't do it. Your only 13. Just keep telling him no and if he keeps pressuring you and won't let up, just let him go. You don't need that and you can find someone your own age who won't try to pressure you into anything. dumb him Oh Darling PLEAS DO NOT LET YOURSELF BE PRESSURED INTO SEX!!!! You will Hate yourself for afterward.... I know you don't wanna hear it... but I was young once too... and oh How I wish I could go back and do it all over again Knowing what I Know Now.... I never would of gave away something So Sacred so easily..... You have to be comfortable in your own body before even thinking about having sex... Your body hasn't even finished developing yet!!! Not to mention sexual diseases... pregnancy??? Do Not rush yourself... Good luck ...take careDon't let him push you into anything. You need to sit and have a serious conversation with him about it and make sure he knows how your feel about it and you need to know how he feels, then you guys can come to a good conclusion about it. you are under age and it's illegal for a 16 yr old to have sex with you - if he keeps it up - tell him you'll have him arrested for statutory rape and he's be a registered sex offender for the rest of his life and and will wind up being a 40yr old virgin, living in his Mom's basementyou have to understand that guys from 14 on are very "curious" there hormones are going insane, which is not the case with girls i suggest being very careful guys can do and say a lot of things that they don't say as wrong....so just be careful!Don't give in. Even though your mature sex isn't something at thirteen that you should be having to worry about. If you say no he needs to respect that decision. If he keeps pressuring you get rid of him, or he'll go try to find someone that will.
There is only one fist time in your life it special and it should be with someone that is equally magnificent. Someone you respect, trust, and love, and who equally gives these qualities back.
Wait hopefully a long time! WHY would you date at 13. And a 16 year old!?
All he is looking for is sex!if you're not ready.
do not give in.
Agreed.
If you're not ready, don't give in.
If he keeps pressuring you and doesn't let off, you'll have to make the decision on what to do.
if you dont want to, dont give in. you cant show weakness, and only you know whats right for you,tell him to stop asking you, because you are too young and whatever your other reasons are! and if he really loves you, he will understand when you tell him not to ask you again...
good luck!! be strong :)
if you can, can you help me please!
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TELL HIM NO!
tell him how you feel about him asking so much and tell him if he can't stop the relationship will have to end have him choose between sex and youHe could get charged with child molestation, so maybe tell him that he has a lot at stake. You're not ready and he's at an age where all he's going to think about (especially when with a girl) is sex, sex, sex. Keep telling him that you're not ready and if he still can't respect that then perhaps you should go your separate ways. You need to tell him, talk to him about it, you cant go out with someone if you feel awkward around themGirl, boys these day just want to get in your pants...just refuse!!Don't give into him! My best friend started dating at 12 to the same guy until she was 18. She spent 5 years not giving into him when he begged her for sex, but she knew that all her other friends were giving in and having kids! She had sex with him on her 17th birthday, and the next day he dumped her because he got what he waited so long for. Then he came crawling back to her, and they dated for another year until she realized she was sick on him, now she is crazy in love with a guy who has asked her to marry him, and she is going to be a nurse soon without kids! Your life is so worth the wait for yourself...if you aren't ready to have sex, don't give in to him. If he loves you he will stop pressuring you until you are ready.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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