Posted in xn--kfs74mzzid01b.com edit by admin on January 7th, 2009
Let me start by sayin this situation consistists of two people I'm friends with and I want to give advice to my friend but I don't want her to make a wrong decision because of my advice so I'm asking for help from the outside so I can get others views on this....
So my friend is and has been with this guy who is also my friend for over a year almost 2 years in fact.
She's feeling confused and unloved she came to me for help and advice i told her to follow her heart but if I thought of any advice i'd let her know about it and i really want to give her more advice then just that cause she's confused.
I don't want either of them upset with me because of my advice either though. :(
She asked me if she went on a break from him my friend her boyfriend if it would be ok to sleep with other guys or date other men and I told her that i wasn't so sure she should but that it was her life to do what she felt.
what do you all think? If she's on break from him would it be ok for her to date or sleep with other men? please help?
thank youIf they had a connection, she should refrain from sleeping with other guys, or getting into a serious relationship. If she's feeling unloved, she should start dating specifically for fun, and to make her feel special! (doublly underlined) Make sure the guy knows that he too can and should go off on his own, and see how it works out. If they truly miss each other, and discover a relation, sure. If they really are starting to wonder why they picked one another in the first place, thats when to make the break.
Hope my contribution helped. Sounds to me like she is unhappy in her current relationship, so my advice would be , to break it off with the poor guy, who probably doesn't have a clue how she is thinking. Any girl who has a guy she has been with almost 2 years , & wants to sleep with other guys, as soon as she breaks up, needs to let your guy friend get on with his life with someone who really cares about him.You need to tell her sleeping around is risky business health wise, & you don't want people to think bad of her, but if she wants to date feel free to do so once she is free.of your guy friend. You may tell her also that your not telling what she should do but it would be the best way to handle it. Good Luck , To You & Your friendswell you were definitely right on the confused part cause she sounds a little messed up. you are also right that it is her life and that she can chose do do what ever with it. with that said, she can also chose do listen to your advice or not, and since your the one with the clear head you're the best thing she has right now. please discourage her from sleeping around because it's bad for a woman's reputation and potentially her heath. and also please give her a more logical option. i know you care for her and you really do want her to follow her heart but at this point it really looks like what she really needs is you to pull her out of her own confusion. hope this helped.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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