Posted in xn--kfs74mzzid01b.com edit by rose on January 7th, 2009
First let me start by saying hello, I ask this question last night. And i am sorry if I offened anyone but I met a muslim man and he is really nice and respectful to me and I have never encounterd or dated a mulim but the stories i have heard on here some are good some are not so good. I really like this guy and I will be meeting him for the first time on tomorow and he is talking about a long trem relationship with me. He works in Probation for the county with kids and he doesn't at all in any way seem like a bad guy and I like him very much. So i was just asking for a little help berfore deciding on which way to go with this situation. Sorry if I offened anyone.i think they are controlling.i have only heard bad things....two friends of mine had to divorce casue the men were too conrtolling, wouldnt even let them wear make up.Like all the other animals they own Muslims treat their women like crap because they follow Allah...well I say do as you wish take a chance get known and see what ahppens. When you find out too late...Mamma MiaYou will only offend Muslims who mistreat women.
Do not judge him because he is Muslim. Judge him based on his personality, his heart and compassion, and how he treats you. If he is from a different country, he may have cultural differences, some of which may be good, some bad. People are people. Both bad people and good people exist in every race, religion and country.
If you like him, then get to know him. If he is a jerk, it will soon come out.
Not to alarm you, but he is talking about a long term relationship and he has yet to even meet you? That sounds odd to me, and it could be meaningless.
Good luck.Its got nothing to do with religion or beliefs, it all comes down to the person.if he's egyptian, senegalese, or ethiopian, run.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_geni...I lived in Bahrain as a child and I am European and from what I can see it will depend on his family. In lots of Muslim countries it is against the law for women to go out in public without covering their faces, they are not allowed to drive or to drink alcohol and the husbands are allowed to take several wives. While I respect certain aspects of Middle Eastern cultures I believe this treatment of women is disgraceful and controlling but that is the way things are and it is the way the men are raised. If this man's family have strong beliefs in this way and he is very close with them then I would steer clear of him. You will be too culturally different for it to work. However if he is a modern-thinking man and has not been brought up to believe that women are inferior properties then he could be a wonderful man. You will really need to spend time with him before you find this out. It's not exactly first date conversation...! :-)The best way to find out is to meet his family!#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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