Guys, Gals,help! NO SEX!? not even a little!!?

Posted in xn--kfs74mzzid01b.com edit by smith on January 7th, 2009

What would you do?! Im running out of options!?

Long read but please help, I don't date that often and I really need help

Ok so there� �s this new girl that I have recently started dating. We� �ve been working at the same job for about a year and she has just broken up with her boyfriend. So for our first 3 dates I have:
1) taken her to the movies-I drove, I paid
2) Invited her to my house- I cooked Lobster and asparagus penne pasta, and Fried vanilla bean ice cream stuffed with roasted apples (I part time chief at a gourmet restaurant.
3) And date number 3 had a midnight walk on the beach with blankets and champagne

Even though I like to spoil my dates; all of these things have barely gotten me to 2nd base; and I� �m running out of Ideas what to do next!

So long story short; the Questions:
1. Am I just a rebound guy that� �s wasting his time and money?
2. Should I tone down the dates?
3. Should I continue what I� �m doing?
4. What else is there!!!?

Any other feedback will be helpful!

Dude just give the girl time maybe she isnt ready to go to the next step yet...eventually she'll give him....just let her be ready wheneveer she is..if u really really really like her then you'll wait...sex isnt wat makes the relationship..caring and loving does...so just wait

Are you dating this girl because you sincerly like her, or because you just want to get into her pants? You don't need to rush things, and she obviously doesn't so try taking it slow. You sound like a sweet thoughtful guy, so carry on with what your doing on the dates. Believe it or not, girls don't just jump into bed with a guy after a first few dates, so give this girl some respect!

ok u r taking thing toooo seriously depending on what job u guys share she should have the intrest of the term "fun" as BEING a girl i dont like things too get to serious too fast u need to have fun every now and then and dont try to make a move too early or she won't like it
try asking her where she wants to go with u and y maybe as a surprise buy her something small like roses do with the romantic/fun type first and if they dont like that ask her for suggestions so she doesnt always get the short end of the stick by alwyas doing what u want=P

You are doing everything good. You aren't wasting money. She is probably having a good time with you but taking the sex thing a little slow until she really knows you. Don't give up on her. The time will come. Just show her that you respect her and you aren't here to rush her into anything right away.

If you really care about this girl, your priority shouldn't be to bone her. If you really want to be with her, keep doing what you're doing. Hate to burst your bubble but not every girl sleeps with the guy she's dating after a few dates. Some girls do have respect for herself, maybe she doesn't want to give in just yet because she's unsure of your intentions (i.e. you only want to bang her).

First of all- All those dates sound amazing!!!!!!!!!!! Oh my God!
1. If you've been on three dates she's probably pretty interested. I would just keep going.
2. NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... I bet she loves it! She's being treated like a princess.
3. YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!! Dude!!! It's amazing!
4. Just do sweet things!

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