Posted in xn--kfs74mzzid01b.com edit by wktd on November 22nd, 2008
ok so I came home the other day, and was about to finally get a cell phone [ im 17] and my cerfew was 10:15 on the dot. But mom came home and she said " oh by the way, its winter so its going to be darker earlier now and w/e.." she said my new cerfew is 9:30... are you serious? I mean its not like she even had a good reason. Im ***** pissed because she does shyt like this all the time. Its like i got in trouble for something i didnt do. what do you think??
Oh and on top of that im homeschooled... wow they really killin my life.I don't know dear, but you do know that you are in the gay section don't you?This is the gay section,
Leave home if you don't like your parents rules...oh you don't want to? Then put up with it.
You sound like a stroppy 10 year oldwhy are you in the gay section?
(T_T)Maybe they Just don't want you out after dark, coz the old dirty men come out and prey on peopleur 17.... just leave!Perhaps if she knows exactly where you are (at a friends house etc) and that you can get home safely you'll be able to stay out later.
P.s. yeah.. leave home.perhaps she wanted you to get home to do some lessons on english grammar and spelling which you obviously need. It seems that you are only semi literateWoah, they really ARE killing your life... are there any particular reasons for you to be home schooled? You've got to make your parents realize that you are 17 now, you don't need to be looked after like a small child, you are mature and need a life, like the ones they got. Explain everything calmly and tell them that you understand that they are trying to protect you, but you need to be able to live your life.
This is the gay section, btw XDI bet if you ask her she would say that she was changed your cerfew out of concern for your safety. 17 yr old boys can be kidnapped ya know. I do agree that you have the right to be upset about this decision SHE made because she and you should of talked about this decision before hand, TALKED TOGETHER..
Parents have to realize that your children are no didfferent then them, only your child does not have worldy experience that comes from living, and it is her maternal instinct to put your safety first.
Talk to her, calmly, maybe you could come up with some type of safety plan for when it gets dark (A cell phone, or mace Etc) that you could present to her, and say that you APPRECIATE that she made this decision because she was only thinking about your safety but that you feel like it would benfit the relationship the two of you have if she could try to remember to talk WITH you when it comes to decsions such as this.Remember even if she will not change her mind, she is your mother, and it is God's law, that you HONOR HER, she in return should should teach you have to live an honorable life. GOOD LUCK FRIENDI'm older than you. I have already been through this in my life. I can give you some words of wisdom on this subject - if you are willing to listen.
Parents do things sometimes that seem cruel and mean. No doubting it. But, you have to think of why they do it. Your mother loves you with all her heart. She only wants what's best for you. If that means having to set down a rule that would keep you safe and out of trouble, that's what she must do. It's not like parents are doing this to punish you or be mean to you. It appears that way from your side of the fence. From theirs, they are only being parents.
Your new curfew is only 45 mins earlier than your other curfew. That's not a lot of time at all, really. And, it's only for the Winter season. It could be a whole lot worse, don't you think?
Just be patient with your parents. Let them be parents for a while. Soon, very soon, they won't be able to "mother" you anymore. You are only 17 so not an adult. If you live under her roof you should obey her rules. It does get dark earlier during the winter time and she is being a good parent. Some let their kiddos run wild and then act all shocked and heartbroken when something tragic happens to them. Most of the time parents have good reason for the things they do, even if they don't approach it exactly how you would like it. Just think, one more year and then you can get out in the world and do exactly what you please.Overprotective.
