Posted in xn--kfs74mzzid01b.com edit by anonym on January 7th, 2009
i hooked up with this guy last weekend and i found out later that hes seeing another girl. i reallly really like him, i may even love him but i dunno what to do. how do i ket him know that i know so it can be like a slap in the face to him? nd please dont say that i shouldnt be hookin up with him because i already know it but ill never be able to say no.I no you said please don't say you shouldn't be with him but Im gonna say it anyway (: YOU SHOULD'NT BE WITH HIM. okay!!??? And if you KNOW people are gonna say that then you DEFFO shouldn't. He cheated on his girlfriend and kind of on you if he didn't tell you.if its true love that you have to offer him, ud do whats best for him, regardless of how you feel and what you need...
and if hes smart enough to see that!~ he'd be able to make the right choice, whatever that may beif he is not married to the other girl, then you are not wrecking a home. i would take a step back if i were you. he didnt respect you enough to be honest with you. sounds like you were just a bootycall anywayWhy would you want to do that if you claim to 'love him'? You must realize that he was using you for sex since you were not even his girlfriend. He has no plans to be faithful to you since he is not even faithful to the official girlfriend, if he knows that you are aware of her it will be a relief to him since he won't have to hide it anymore, not a slap in the face. Since you are only hookin up with him he is likely to throw you back if you throw a fit about the situation.
Sorry, but to him finding out the you KNOW he is a cheater is no big deal, gee your not his wife with his kids . . . sorry but he's the one with the upper hand in this situation.your his toy... his Bi @ tch.... if you don't have a problem with it, I'm sure he won't have a problem with it.
The thing is, he won't know how much he wants you until you leave him... that is when he will drop his other GFs looking for you... He's married too, well, makes it a little more complex.You want to let him know that you know that he's seeing another girl..... so it can be a slap in the face?
Just tell him the truth, my friend.See him again and be funny/sarcastic for example while kissing him go ohhh Amanda and then look at him and go oh sorry i sometimes confuse you with another girl im seeing. and smile like gottcha!!!
i wouldnt want to be with a cheater myself but i think your on his same level anyways. The fact that he's seeing another girl and was willing to hook up with you doesn't bother you? Wow. It sure would bother me - it says he has no respect for you or this girl. Definitely not a guy worth seeing again.theres nothing in it for u if he is seeing someone else except for heartache.why set yourself up for hurt. your own self worth keeps u from just saying no.sounds like you're going to be a home wrecker this weekend too...get real if he cheated on his girlfriend with you do you honestly think he wouldn't cheat on you. he is a playerIf i were you i would personally slap him in the face with my hand not with you knowing about the other girl. It sounds like he is not married so no he is not tied down but i think you need to respect yourself. I have been in your situation once before and no i didn't know about the other girl. The moment i found out i said what i had to say to him and never seen him again. I am better then that and i think you need to sit back and think about how you want to be treated. If you respect yourself other people will respect you.Xiggyjay,
it's open game on the market. He is still eligible to cancel out and meet someone else and get married. He is not tied down until he says the vows " I Do" and then you hooked and landed your fish. Just make sure he's not a Barracuda.If he cheated on her, he'll cheat on you. Do you really want that type of person? If so, then go ahead and wait for your life of misery. If not, then move on and learn your lessons.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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